বৃহস্পতিবার, ২৮ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

Rohingya Genocide in Myanmar

Rohingya Genocide in Myanmar
Myanmar recently became infamous for her brutal and barbaric genocide on Rohingya Muslims. They began the atrocities on 25 August 2017. They killed innocent people including men, women and children. They burnt their houses. They shot them. The notoriously wicked army of Myanmar slaughtered them and burned them alive. The army raped Rohingya women and little girls. They shot people in no man’s land which is known as the buffer zone. The army kept landmines on the border. Many Rohingyas lost their lives and lost their body parts due to the explosion of the mines. They erected the barbed wire fence on the border and electrified it. Myanmar is not allowing the U.N.O representatives and the representatives of other international communities to go to Rakhine state for observation of the situation. So far approximately 500,000 thousand refugees fled to Bangladesh.
Before 25 August 2017, 400, 000 had already been living in Bangladesh. Now, there are nearly 900,000 Rohingya refugees living in Bangladesh, old and new taken together. Bangladesh is a small country of 147,570 sq.km. We have more than 250 rivers. It is a riverine plain land. Much of Bangladesh is water. It is difficult for us to accommodate such a large number of refugees in our country. The rate of growth of our economy is moderate. It is around 6% in the recent years. The continuous influx of refugees to Bangladesh is a great hindrance to our economic growth. Bangladesh wants to send back the refugees to Myanmar as soon as the normal living situation is restored there.
Rohingyas are deprived of all human rights in their own country where they have been living for centuries. Their rights to study, work, travel, marry, buy land, practice religion, access health services etc, are restricted.  They are forbidden to have more than two children. They have no right to travel without the Government’s permission. In 1982 the Myanmar Government passed a law officially denying citizenship to Rohingyas. In 2014 Rohingyas were excluded from the National census.
Rohingyas are homeless and stateless. They are suffering from identity crisis. United Nation’s Human Rights Chief, Zeid Ra’ad al-Hussein described this genocide as a “Textbook case of ethnic cleansing”. It is a savage idea in the modern world. Rohingyas are said to be the most persecuted minority in the world, unable to claim citizenship in Myanmar or in any other country.                               Persecution of Rohingyas by Myanmar army is nothing new. They are doing it phase by phase. In 1977, the Military Junta began operation Nagamine or Dragon King which aimed at screening the foreigners. More than two hundred thousand Rohingya refugees fled to Bangladesh.
In 1982, a new immigration law redefined people who migrated during the British rule. They called them illegal immigrants. This is strange. During the colonial period, The British took labourers from their colonies to other colonies for sugar cultivation, cultivation of other cash crops and for development of infrastructure. They took Indians to Fiji, Myanmar and the Caribbean countries. These people of Fiji and Caribbean countries are not regarded as illegal immigrants. They are citizens of those countries and enjoying all human rights and democratic rights. So, the labourers of Myanmar taken there by the British must be citizens of that country.         
In 1991 more than 250,000 Rohingya refugees fled to Bangladesh. The Military Junta raped Rohingya women and there were religious persecutions.
In 2012, riots began between Rohingyas and Rakhine Buddhists. This riot killed more than 100 people. Most of them are Rohingyas. Besides, tens of thousands of people were driven into Bangladesh. Nearly 15,000 were forced to take shelter in the camps in Rakhine. It may be mentioned that Rakhines are Mogs. They are infamous Mog pirates. They came from Magadha of Bihar, India. Later there were intermarriages between the Mongolian race and the Mogs. The Rakhines look like the mixed ethnic group of the Indians and the Mongolians. This happened because of Mongolian invasion.  
In 2016, many Rohingyas fled to Bangladesh because of the military crackdown in Myanmar. Rohingya villages were burned by the Burmese extremists. Some Rohingyas were shot while trying to cross the border. Others arrived in Bangladesh by boats. Many dead bodies floated to the river banks of Bangladesh.
The Rohingyas came not only to Bangladesh, but they went to India, Indonesia, Malaysia and Thailand. There are 40 thousand Rohingyas in India. Since the late 1970s, nearly one million Rohingyas fled from Myanmar due to widespread persecution.
I don’t want to say much about Aung San Suu Kyi. She is a doll of the Military Junta. She is a mouthpiece of the army. She has no moral standard, no personal values. She did not attend the meeting of the General Assembly of the U. N. O, showing lame excuses. Her speech on television was full of lies. She proved herself to be dishonest. She did not condemn or criticize the genocide. She denied the well-documented accusations, allegations and the pieces of evidence on the genocide. We do not respect her. Awarding Nobel prize to her is a disgrace to Nobel prize. This has undermined the value, dignity, honour and prestige of Nobel Prize.
It is true that she has no power. The designation of State Counsellor is just a signboard. The Military Junta allowed her to possess this title to pacify Aung San Suu Kyi and the people of Myanmar. The people of Myanmar do not like the Military Junta. They want Myanmar to be a democratic state in the true sense of the term. They want a change for the better.  Aung San Suu Kyi kept silent for a long time and delivered a dishonest and immoral speech to maintain her position as State Counsellor. Instead, she could be a morally inspired good person. She could respect humanity. She could possess human qualities. She could love humans. She could be revered all over the world. Now she is condemned unconditionally and internationally.
The Secretary-General, U. N. O, said, “Myanmar’s de facto leader, Aung San Suu Kyi has a last chance to halt an army offensive that has forced hundreds of thousands of Muslim Rohingyas to flee abroad”. He told the BBC that unless she acted now the tragedy would be absolutely horrible. He added, “ if she does not reverse the situation now then the tragedy would be absolutely horrible and unfortunately then I don't see how this can be reversed in the future.” He also said, “ It is clear that Myanmar’s military still has the “upper hand” in the country putting pressure “to do what is being done on the ground” in Rakhine. This shows that the whole world knows about Aung San Suu Kyi’s real position in the Government.
        There are worldwide condemnations of the atrocities of the Military Junta in Myanmar. The foreign minister of Indonesia flew to Myanmar for an emergency talk with Aung San Suu  Kyi.
Turkish president Recep Tayyip Erdogan said that violence against the Muslim Rohingyas amounted to genocide.
British Foreign Secretary, Boris Johnson warned Aung San Suu Kyi that the oppression of the minority was “besmirching” her country’s reputation.
Malala Yousafzai, a Pakistani Nobel laureate, said, “Every time I see the news,  my heart breaks at the suffering of the Rohingya Muslims in Myanmar”. She added, “Over the last several years I have repeatedly condemned this tragic and shameful treatment, I am still waiting for my fellow Nobel laureate Aung San Suu Kyi to do the same”.
Malaysian Foreign Minister Anifah Aman also questioned Aung San Suu Kyi’s silence. She said, “ Very frankly, I am dissatisfied with Aung San Suu Kyi,” she said it to AFP News Agency.
Maldives said that they would not make any trade activities and relations with Myanmar until the Government took measures to prevent the atrocities being committed against Rohingya Muslims.
Indonesian Foreign Minister Retno Marsudi met Aung San Suu Kyi as well as Myanmar’s army chief General Min Aung Hlaing to pressure the Government to do more to alleviate the crisis.
Pakistan told to take effective measures to prevent the recurrence of such violence.
Iranian foreign minister Javad Zarif added in a tweet: “Global silence on continuing violence against Rohingya Muslims. International action crucial to prevent further ethnic cleansing-UN must rally.”
Thousands gathered in Russia’s Chechnya region for an officially staged rally over the plight of the Rohingya refugees.
Russia, China and India sided with Myanmar. We were not surprised by Russia and China’s positions. During our liberation movement, China supported Pakistani atrocities and persecution on us. We were shocked by Narendra Modi’s role. He worked against Bangladesh and against the persecuted Rohingya refugees. It is not a good idea for a good person. He should remember that Myanmar is China’s baby. If there is a war between India and China, Myanmar will not support India. They will definitely support their big brother, China. If Congress was in power things might be different. There is news that India is selling arms to Myanmar. This is an insult to humanity. It is strange that BJP could possess power in India. In Bangladesh, no religious party will run the Government. They may have one or two seats in the Parliament, but Bangladeshi people will never accept a religious party to have majority seats in the Parliament. Narendra Modi is a communal man. Many people say that he is responsible for Gujrat riot for which 6000 Muslims were killed.

Myanmar says that Rohingyas are illegal immigrants from Bangladesh. I believe that they are not illegal immigrants from Bangladesh because people migrate to those countries which are richer than their own countries. Myanmar is not richer than Bangladesh. Their nominal GDP in 2016 was only 66,324 million US Dollars. In the same time, Bangladesh’s nominal GDP was 227,901 million US Dollars (Reference: Wikipedia).
The Bangladeshis go to India because their GDP is much larger than that of Bangladesh. Their economy is much wider than our economy. The Bangladeshis go there for better income and opportunities. There exists no such reason for the Bangladeshis to go to Myanmar.
Rohingyas have been living in Rakhine state for many centuries. Let us look back. Indians were the first people to live in Myanmar. They were Aryans or Indo Europeans. I believe that the Rohingyas have been living in Arakan for more than 4,683 years. Hindu dynasty began in 2066 B. C. Now it is 2017. So, I added 2066 with 2017. The Hindus lived in Arakan for more than 2066 years before the birth of Jesus Christ. After that period they have lived in Arakan for 2017 years. The Arakan Rohingya National Organization said, “ Rohingyas have been living in Arakan from time immemorial” I firmly believe that this is true. We can reveal the truth by conducting research and studies. It is easy in modern times. We have the facilities of DNA Tests. The Burmans and the Tibeto Burmans came to Myanmar much later. At that time all people of South East Asia were Hindus. People of India, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Indonesia, Malaysia, Thailand, Bhutan, Nepal, Cambodia, Laos, Vietnam etc. were Hindus. There is archaeological evidence of this information. Later, they became either Buddhists or Muslims. The same happened in Myanmar too. The Rohingyas were originally Aryans. They became Muslims at the later stages when Arabs, Turks, Moors, Persians, Afghans etc, Muslim people came to Myanmar in the 8th century and the 9th century.
Arakan was ruled by various legendary Indian Hindu dynasties before the 8the century. In 788 A.D a new dynasty known as the “Chandras” founded the city of vesali. Their territory extended as far north as Chittagong. Vesali was an easterly Hindu kingdom of Bengal. At this time the Government and the people were Aryan Indian Hindus. Burmese people settled in Myanmar in the 10the century. They came much later than the Indian Hindus and the Arabs.
Arabs came to Myanmar in the 8th century. So, the Arabs came to Myanmar before the Burmese people. They came as traders, travellers, administrators etc. Rohingyas claim that they are descendants of the Arabs, Moors, Turks, Persians, Mughals, Pathans and Bengalis. It is a mixed nation, a mixed ethnic group that is different from that of Indians and Bengalis.
They don't speak Bengali. They have a different language. Their language is full of Arabic words. I watch Rohingya news on Rohingya Visiontv. I do not understand it. It is not Bengali.
I understand that their ancestors were Hindu Indians before the 8th century. Later they accepted Islam as we became Muslims in Bangladesh. Our ancestors were Hindus. Hindu blood of Rohingyas was mixed up with the Arabs, Moors, Turks, Persians, Mughals, Pathans and Bengalis.
It seems that they are basically Aryans because they have Aryan facial features. They do not look like the people of the Mongolian race. They have Indian Hindu blood like the Bangladeshis. So, to some extent, they look like the Bengalis and the Indians, but their facial features are not exactly like the Bengalis and the Indians. Most of them have sharper facial features than the Bengalis. Our facial features indicate our racial history.
Arakan was an independent country under Bengal Sultanate until the 18th century. Bengal Sultanate was established by the conqueror Shamsuddin Ilias Shah in 1352. It ruled Bangladesh, West Bengal and Arakan region from 1352 to 1576. The word “Arakan” is an Arabic or Persian name having the same meaning in both the languages. The indigenous name of Arakan is Rohan. The writers who worked at the royal court they mentioned Arakan as the kingdom of Rohan or Rohingyas. The poet Shah Alawal mentioned Arakan as the kingdom of Rohan or Rohingyas. The kings of Arakan had Muslim titles. It is not clear to me why they took Muslim titles. It might be so that they became Muslims or they might do it for political reasons. At that time there had been cordial relations between Arakan and the Muslims. In the kingdom of Arakan, there were Muslim poets and writers in the royal courts. Some of them were Shah Alawal, Daulat Qazi, Magan Siddiqi etc. Muslims worked there as royal advisors, royal administrators, port authorities, Mayors, travellers, adventurers, pioneers, sailors, traders, military personnel, traditional medical men etc.  
There is no end of this article because the atrocities of the infamous Myanmar army is still continuing. They are still burning Rohingya refugees alive. The raped women have become pregnant. There are already 40,000 pregnant women who arrived after 25 August 2017. Aid workers and the aids cannot cope with the immense gravity of the problem.The CNN says that after the atrocities of 25 August 2017 more than 30 thousand refugees have been trapped in the hilly terrain of Arakan without basic supplies of food, medicines and water. There is no end of the heartbreaking news. Annan Commission's report is not helping the helpless. It seems that the words will not do. There should be economic sanctions. If necessary the U.N.O should send armed forces to Myanmar. The U.S.A has sent forces to Iraq, Afghanistan, Libya and Syria. Why is it not possible to send forces to Myanmar to protect the lives of innocent Rohingya refugees? There might be critical political implications of this hypothesis. The intellectuals may throw light on this.
Myanmar should be taken to International Court of Justice. Accountability should not get lost. If someone kills one person he is hanged, but the infamous army of Myanmar is killing thousands of innocent people. If they are hanged hundred times, that is not enough too.
(While writing this article I collected information from Wikipedia, Aljazeera news, Dr Mohammad Yunus’s book titled “A history of Arakan” and Youtube Videos)


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শুক্রবার, ২২ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

Religion

Religion
Religion helped us when we were
Barbaric nomadic tribes
It saved our souls
When we were ignorant
When we did not see
The light of civilization
Then we needed shelter of spiritual home
Religion taught us moral values
Religious leaders were social leaders
They were great men of different times
Abraham, Moses, Mohammad
Jesus Christ, Buddha, Guru Nanak
All wanted to save our souls
They preached peace
They preached universal brotherhood
They did not know that
We would be killing people
For religion
We would be fighting bloody wars
Christians, Hindus, Buddhists
All are playing with blood of their brothers
There were crusades and Jihads
Muslims and Christians fought each other
There were riots among
Hindus and Muslims in India
There are divisions within the religions too
Catholics fought the protestants
Sunnis are fighting Shias
Remember the war in Bosnia and Herzegovina
Civil wars of Africa
All are futile exercise
For destruction of mankind
Abraham was shocked when he saw human sacrifice
Babies were sacrificed to pacify the
Bloodthirsts of Gods and Goddesses
He taught us to sacrifice animals
Instead of humans
Innumerable men, women and children
Lost their lives for religion
The fanatics and fundamentalists think that
They will be martyrs
If they kill members of another religion
They are living in
Fool’s paradise
During the dark ages
Religion met our spiritual needs
Now religion is the root cause of
Divisions and destruction among people
Religion is the principal cause of most wars
It is the worst hindrance to peace
We are divided and subdivided
Segmented, fragmented, segregated and separated
No more
Enough is enough
Religions are personal faiths
Let us abolish all religious states from the earth
Let us have secular democratic states
We are all children of Adam
We all  belong to our
African ancestors
All are red inside
It is time to talk about a new religion
That is the religion of love and equality
All humans are equal and
Love is the best virtue
All are sons and daughters of nature

The best of religion is to love and respect humans

বৃহস্পতিবার, ২১ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

Dictator

Dictator
A dictator has the same
Face and character all over the world
He has no country
No religion and race
No caste and creed
His only acquaintance
He is the traitor
He is enemy of humanity
Enemy of Human rights and democracy
He sucks our blood and
Keeps us under chain
We become prisoners of the dictator
We bear endless pain, persecution and
Brutal punishment under remand
His cruelty knows no bound
He kills people ruthlessly
He enjoys extrajudicial killings
He hangs people for political gains
His men conduct barbaric torture Inside jail
All of them are the same
In snatching away people’s rights and freedom
Hitler, Mussolini, Pol Pot
Stalin, Kim Jong Un, Mao Zedong
Saddam, Marcos, Mugabe, Bashar Al Assad
All are oppressors, persecutors
Dictators and exploiters
All looted people’s rights and properties
They are all embarrassment to civilization
They killed democracy
They forbid us to speak our minds
They put illegal restrictions on
People’s voices and movements
We cannot hold meetings
We cannot conduct peaceful
Demonstrations and processions
We cannot make human chain
We cannot go for long march
We cannot provide food and shelter
To the refugees
We cannot perform
Charitable and social work
We are hidden and forbidden population
The dictator keeps us out of focus
We are forbidden to do
What we want to do Without doing any harm to others
The commitment and struggle of the people is
To restore freedom and democracy
We will stand on our feet
We will turn around
To destroy the evils
People's voice will be heard loudly
We will break the door of the dictator
With our robust fists and fierce kick
We will choose
Our political representatives
Courageous fights of our
Freedom fighters
Will break the throne of the dictator into pieces
The dictator will be defeated and dead
Victorious will be the people



বুধবার, ২০ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

The Jews

The Jews
Isaac's parents
Abraham and Sarah
His son Jacob
Twelve sons of Jacob
Twelve tribes of Israel
Jews are they
Twelve tribes could not be
Among themselves for centuries
Wherever humans go
They mix up and mingle with
Thousands of humans
Intermarriages are there
Among races and religions
Humans can never be
Isolated and segregated
They talk and laugh together
They embrace each other
King Solomon had seven hundred wives and
Three hundred concubines
Many were foreigners
The Jews lived in Egypt
For five hundred years
Married the daughters of Pharaohs
Married the charming ladies of Egypt
For two thousand and five hundred years
They lived in all continents
Their footsteps heard in
Europe, America, Asia, Africa and Russia
Converted Jews are there
No blood connection with Abraham
Common people are Jews
There is no purity of race
Wherever humans go
They give and take blood
From time immemorial it happened
It is happening
It will happen
They play the eternal game of man and woman
Human beings are coloured by mixed blood
They merge with nature and life
Humans cannot ignore
Love of other humans
They float with waves of oceans and seas
Build their homes beside the shores
Wherever their boats stand
Humans cannot be prisoners of Twelve Tribes
They broke the chain
They spread, loved and laughed
No one is Jew today

All are children of Adam

মঙ্গলবার, ১৬ ফেব্রুয়ারি, ২০১৬

The poor parents

The poor parents
Social values vary from country to country and change over time. All social values and religious ethics tell us to respect our parents. When I was a child parents were regarded as Gods and Goddesses. At that time parents were not poor even in poverty. They enjoyed prestige, dignity and honour in the family.
My father was a lawyer. In the evening he used to come home from the court. I saw him giving all his earnings to my paternal grandmother. She kept it in a secured place very carefully.
On each Friday my father used to go to the mosque for Friday prayer. Before going to the mosque he used to cut his hair. I have seen him saying to his mother, “ Mom, would you please give me six anas? I want to cut my hair.” My grandmother opened the knot of her Saree very carefully and gave six anas to my father. At that time sixteen anas made Taka one.
My father bought a house in Dhaka with his own money. Before documenting the purchase he said to my grandfather, “ Father, whose name will be documented as the owner of the house?” My grandfather said, “ Write my name there. I will be the owner of the house.” In the end, my uncle owned it according to my grandfather’s will. We got nothing from this house.
Those values are no more there. These days most of the Bangladeshi parents are poor and distressed. Their daughters-in-law are educated and conscious. One man’s income is not enough to run a single family. How can they allow their husbands to support their parents? They want privacy and an independent life. In most cases I have seen them annoyed with such responsibilities. If the father-in-law and mother-in-law are sharing the same household with their daughter-in-law, there is chaos. Sometimes, there are brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law in the same household. Usually daughters-in-law do not like them or they do not enjoy their presence. This seems to be natural to me because there is no blood connection or no experience of living or existing together for a long time. Sometimes there are other responsibilities too. For example, marriages of the younger sister's, education-cost of the younger brothers etc.
I observed that the main problem was limited amount of money to be shared with the parents. I feel that there is pleasure in sharing but often we do not feel it. Moreover, when we avoid our duties, it causes mental pressure on us either consciously or unconsciously.
Personally I believe that we should maintain some sacrificing spirits and moral standards. Once our parents have done much for us. Now, it is our turn to help them when they really need it.
Parents are often helpless. They spent their earnings for raising children. When the children grow up they are retired from work or they have no savings. They cannot survive without financial assistance of their sons.
It would be better if the parents could survive independently and if they could maintain a comfortable distance from their daughters-in-law but they cannot afford it because they are financially dependent on the income of their sons.
Parents who can live independently with their own income are really fortunate. They can enjoy freedom and self-respect. They can live with prestige, dignity and honour.
Singapore has an Act known as “Maintenance of Parents Act”. The purpose of this Act is to provide a safety net for needy and neglected parents who had no other resource. The Act provides for Singapore residents aged 60 years old and above, who are unable to subsist on their own, to claim maintenance from their children who are capable of supporting them but are not doing so. Parents can sue their children for maintenance, in the form of monthly allowances or a lump-sum payment. The Act also establishes the Tribunal for the maintenance of parents to decide on applications made under the Act (Reference: eresources.nlb.gov.sg).
China has a law that says grown children in China must visit their parents or potentially face fines or jail (BBC.com/news/world-asia-china-23124345).
It is shocking to me, that we need to make laws for this purpose. Why can’t we teach moral values to our children? One of my aunties said, “ We think that we have blood relations with our babies. They are of our flesh and blood. So, they will do their duties spontaneously. Actually, these issues are not spontaneous. It depends on how we teach them moral values from their childhoods. Training is a very important part for developing children’s personalities.”
In the end, I would like to say that for the sons of the poor countries and the developing countries it is tough to support their parents and sometimes including brothers and sisters. But even then we cannot ignore our duties towards our parents. Let us sacrifice some of our comforts and luxaries for our parents.

শনিবার, ১৩ ফেব্রুয়ারি, ২০১৬

The third gender (Hijras)

The third gender (Hijras)
For writing this article I have collected information from Wikipedia and Aljazeera news.
People of the third gender are neither males nor females. They may have both male and female sexual organs or characteristics. In general, Hijras are born with typically male physiologies. Some Hijras undergo an initiation rite into the Hijra community called “Nirwaan”, which refers to removal of the penis, scrotum and testicles.
Scientists suggest that several prenatal, chromosomal, hormonal, biological and genetic factors might be responsible for birth of the population of third gender.
They are normally and naturally born of their parents, just the same way we were born. Yes, it is the same biological process of giving births to babies. In India, Bangladesh and Pakistan they cannot stay with their parents or the parents do not want to keep them because of social rejection or unacceptability.
I do not understand that why they can’t stay with their families. They have families. They have parents, brothers, sisters, uncles and aunties. We sometimes have dumb children, retarded children and children with other disabilities. We are keeping them with us. There is no harm if children of the third gender live with their families.
Besides sexual identity, Hijras are like other normal human beings. They can talk, hear, speak, work and are capable of doing other physical and mental activities. If they are given education, they can become engineers, doctors or professors. There are many Hijras all over the world. There are 700 thousand (0.2 to 0.3% of the total population) transgender people in the U.S.A ( Ref: livescience.com/50635-bruce-jenner-transgender-prevalence.html).
We must agree that they are realities of human existence. We cannot deny the fact that they are humans like us. When we degrade them, we actually degrade humanity.
In South Asia Hijras are separated from the main society. Many of them live in well defined and organized all-Hijra communities, led by a guru. These communities have sustained themselves over generations. They earn livelihoods by performing, dancing and singing in family functions, e.g. birthdays, marriages and childbirths. It is obligatory for hosts to pay them in money, grain or other things.
I have observed a common belief among household owners that if the Hijras are dissatisfied, they will curse them that would become effective. I have experienced that if I don’t pay them money they curse me very badly.
These days they are creating much problems to the shopkeepers, vendors and household owners of Dhaka city.The Hijras demand high amounts of money. If they don’t want to give as much as they want, the Hijras snatch away the products they were selling and curse and abuse the household owners using ugly language.
In Bangladesh, there are ten thousand Hijras. Yes, people complain that their behaviours are rough but they have something to say too. They say that they are deprived of all human rights. They are without jobs, income, education, health care facilities etc. Wherever they go they experience discriminations. They cannot be admitted to the public hospitals. They cannot earn their livelihoods. How can they survive without money? When they were born, their parents rejected them. Is it not shocking that parents rejected their own babies who were of their own flesh and blood? They have no burial rights. After deaths they do not get graves. They are refused and rejected even after death!
There are some positive aspects of the problem that we can discuss now. India, Nepal, Pakistan and Bangladesh have legally recognized existence of the third gender in relevant official documents including the passports. In Bangladesh, Hijras are eligible for priority in education and they have voting rights too. Bangladesh Government had a plan of recruiting the Hijras as traffic police. Once I read it in the newspapers. I am not aware of any implementation of this idea. In June, 2009, the Supreme court of Pakistan ordered a census of Hijra population which revealed that at that time the number of Hijra population was 300,000.
The Hijras of India are the most well known and populous third sex type in the modern world. Mumbai based community health organization “The Humsafar Trust” estimates that there are between 5 and 6 million Hijras in India. They can cast their votes and they have voter identity cards. They are entitled to reservation in education and jobs. As per verdict of Indian Supreme court dated 15 April, 2014, “Recognition of transgender as a third gender is not a social or medical issue but a human rights issue.” The verdict made India one of the few countries to give this landmark judgement.
I am in New Zealand now. Here birth certificates are available at birth showing “Indeterminate” sex if it is not possible to assign a sex. The New Zealand Department of Internal Affairs states, “ A person’s sex can be recorded as Indeterminate at the time of birth if it cannot be ascertained that the person is either male or female and there are a number of people so recorded.” Passports are available from December, 2012 with an “X” sex description where “X” means “Indeterminate/Unspecified”.
I think Hijras are not normal and natural phenomena. They do not look like normal. They don’t have normal reproductive systems. They cannot produce children. Human babies are born with other kinds of abnormalities too. Hijras are like them. They are born because of chromosomal, genetic and hormonal defects. They should be treated the way we treat our other physical defects. Surgical operations may help them. They should be transformed to either males or females with the respective reproductive systems so that they may produce children. The medical scientists will be able to describe this paragraph better. Research should be continued for giving the Hijras their sexual identities as either males or females. At the moment, if we cannot do this, we should recognize their human rights and treat them accordingly. If we achieve something in theory, we should practice it too.
We can give them work. They will be able to work in the factories even if they are not educated. They can be involved in construction work. They can work as cleaners. They can have proper education facilities. Our development partners may come forward for their rehabilitation.
I firmly believe that proper education, health facilities, rehabilitation, protection, security, love, affection and social acceptance can completely change their status. Social rejection and parental rejection will equally negatively affect all of us. In the end, we must remember that they are humans like us and definitely they are our sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunties, nephews and nieces. We must recognize our own flesh and blood.

বুধবার, ১০ ফেব্রুয়ারি, ২০১৬

Choosing the bride

Choosing the bride
Two types of marriages are conducted in Bangladesh. One is marriage for love and the other one is marriage of convenience. I understand that in Bangladesh most of the marriages are of convenience. These marriages are generally arranged by parents.
In case of love marriages, boys and girls love one another and then they get married. Still the Bangladeshi society is conservative. Usually the guardians do not approve of love among boys and girls without their consents. So, the lovers struggle a lot to get married.
In case of arranged marriages, it is only the girls who struggle hard to be chosen by the bridegroom’s parents and relatives. The men are in advantageous positions. Their demands are much higher than that of the girls. The girls from class five to the level of Master’s degree become candidates of one educated man. But a girl of any education level cannot be handed over to a man who studied up to class five only. Actually this is the story of the middle class people.
Men want everything. They want a rich and well reputed father-in-law, a beautiful and well educated bride and a dowry of high value. The story does not end here. They see and examine to their heart's content hundreds of girls for choosing only one bride.
I have seen that they take it as fun which causes a tremendous mental and financial pressure on the parents of the girls and on the girls themselves. The girls’ parents arrange tasty and costly food items to entertain them and take other necessary preparations to satisfy the bridegroom’s family. To face this ordeal many times, parents of the bride spend lots of money because each time the bridegroom’s family rejects the girl.
I have noticed that they don’t take it seriously. They do not think about the sorrows and frustrations of the bride and her parents. I have seen that the girls become devastated being rejected so many times without any valid reason.
I understand that they may not choose or like a girl but they can be respectful to them and their parents. They can see the photos of the brides, they can have ideas about the complexions of the brides, they can collect other information about their families before seeing the girl. I mean they can reduce the chances of rejection if they consider the matter seriously.

I understand that there are matchmaking organizations of Bangladesh. They should take care of this phenomenon so that before going to the homes of brides, they consider the issues of human respect and their sufferings along with financial costs.
Choosing a girl for marriage is not a fun. Men and women are choosing their life partners. It is not a commodity market. This is about human relations. So, from the very beginning mutual respects should be ensured.
I felt very sad when I found highly educated men, choosing brides by creating sufferings to hundreds of parents and girls. In this regard they can educate their families. They can educate the society.
In the end, I would urge the men and their families to pay due respect to the girls and their parents when they choose their brides.