বৃহস্পতিবার, ২১ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

Dictator

Dictator
A dictator has the same
Face and character all over the world
He has no country
No religion and race
No caste and creed
His only acquaintance
He is the traitor
He is enemy of humanity
Enemy of Human rights and democracy
He sucks our blood and
Keeps us under chain
We become prisoners of the dictator
We bear endless pain, persecution and
Brutal punishment under remand
His cruelty knows no bound
He kills people ruthlessly
He enjoys extrajudicial killings
He hangs people for political gains
His men conduct barbaric torture Inside jail
All of them are the same
In snatching away people’s rights and freedom
Hitler, Mussolini, Pol Pot
Stalin, Kim Jong Un, Mao Zedong
Saddam, Marcos, Mugabe, Bashar Al Assad
All are oppressors, persecutors
Dictators and exploiters
All looted people’s rights and properties
They are all embarrassment to civilization
They killed democracy
They forbid us to speak our minds
They put illegal restrictions on
People’s voices and movements
We cannot hold meetings
We cannot conduct peaceful
Demonstrations and processions
We cannot make human chain
We cannot go for long march
We cannot provide food and shelter
To the refugees
We cannot perform
Charitable and social work
We are hidden and forbidden population
The dictator keeps us out of focus
We are forbidden to do
What we want to do Without doing any harm to others
The commitment and struggle of the people is
To restore freedom and democracy
We will stand on our feet
We will turn around
To destroy the evils
People's voice will be heard loudly
We will break the door of the dictator
With our robust fists and fierce kick
We will choose
Our political representatives
Courageous fights of our
Freedom fighters
Will break the throne of the dictator into pieces
The dictator will be defeated and dead
Victorious will be the people



বুধবার, ২০ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৭

The Jews

The Jews
Isaac's parents
Abraham and Sarah
His son Jacob
Twelve sons of Jacob
Twelve tribes of Israel
Jews are they
Twelve tribes could not be
Among themselves for centuries
Wherever humans go
They mix up and mingle with
Thousands of humans
Intermarriages are there
Among races and religions
Humans can never be
Isolated and segregated
They talk and laugh together
They embrace each other
King Solomon had seven hundred wives and
Three hundred concubines
Many were foreigners
The Jews lived in Egypt
For five hundred years
Married the daughters of Pharaohs
Married the charming ladies of Egypt
For two thousand and five hundred years
They lived in all continents
Their footsteps heard in
Europe, America, Asia, Africa and Russia
Converted Jews are there
No blood connection with Abraham
Common people are Jews
There is no purity of race
Wherever humans go
They give and take blood
From time immemorial it happened
It is happening
It will happen
They play the eternal game of man and woman
Human beings are coloured by mixed blood
They merge with nature and life
Humans cannot ignore
Love of other humans
They float with waves of oceans and seas
Build their homes beside the shores
Wherever their boats stand
Humans cannot be prisoners of Twelve Tribes
They broke the chain
They spread, loved and laughed
No one is Jew today

All are children of Adam

মঙ্গলবার, ১৬ ফেব্রুয়ারী, ২০১৬

The poor parents

The poor parents
Social values vary from country to country and change over time. All social values and religious ethics tell us to respect our parents. When I was a child parents were regarded as Gods and Goddesses. At that time parents were not poor even in poverty. They enjoyed prestige, dignity and honour in the family.
My father was a lawyer. In the evening he used to come home from the court. I saw him giving all his earnings to my paternal grandmother. She kept it in a secured place very carefully.
On each Friday my father used to go to the mosque for Friday prayer. Before going to the mosque he used to cut his hair. I have seen him saying to his mother, “ Mom, would you please give me six anas? I want to cut my hair.” My grandmother opened the knot of her Saree very carefully and gave six anas to my father. At that time sixteen anas made Taka one.
My father bought a house in Dhaka with his own money. Before documenting the purchase he said to my grandfather, “ Father, whose name will be documented as the owner of the house?” My grandfather said, “ Write my name there. I will be the owner of the house.” In the end, my uncle owned it according to my grandfather’s will. We got nothing from this house.
Those values are no more there. These days most of the Bangladeshi parents are poor and distressed. Their daughters-in-law are educated and conscious. One man’s income is not enough to run a single family. How can they allow their husbands to support their parents? They want privacy and an independent life. In most cases I have seen them annoyed with such responsibilities. If the father-in-law and mother-in-law are sharing the same household with their daughter-in-law, there is chaos. Sometimes, there are brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law in the same household. Usually daughters-in-law do not like them or they do not enjoy their presence. This seems to be natural to me because there is no blood connection or no experience of living or existing together for a long time. Sometimes there are other responsibilities too. For example, marriages of the younger sister's, education-cost of the younger brothers etc.
I observed that the main problem was limited amount of money to be shared with the parents. I feel that there is pleasure in sharing but often we do not feel it. Moreover, when we avoid our duties, it causes mental pressure on us either consciously or unconsciously.
Personally I believe that we should maintain some sacrificing spirits and moral standards. Once our parents have done much for us. Now, it is our turn to help them when they really need it.
Parents are often helpless. They spent their earnings for raising children. When the children grow up they are retired from work or they have no savings. They cannot survive without financial assistance of their sons.
It would be better if the parents could survive independently and if they could maintain a comfortable distance from their daughters-in-law but they cannot afford it because they are financially dependent on the income of their sons.
Parents who can live independently with their own income are really fortunate. They can enjoy freedom and self-respect. They can live with prestige, dignity and honour.
Singapore has an Act known as “Maintenance of Parents Act”. The purpose of this Act is to provide a safety net for needy and neglected parents who had no other resource. The Act provides for Singapore residents aged 60 years old and above, who are unable to subsist on their own, to claim maintenance from their children who are capable of supporting them but are not doing so. Parents can sue their children for maintenance, in the form of monthly allowances or a lump-sum payment. The Act also establishes the Tribunal for the maintenance of parents to decide on applications made under the Act (Reference: eresources.nlb.gov.sg).
China has a law that says grown children in China must visit their parents or potentially face fines or jail (BBC.com/news/world-asia-china-23124345).
It is shocking to me, that we need to make laws for this purpose. Why can’t we teach moral values to our children? One of my aunties said, “ We think that we have blood relations with our babies. They are of our flesh and blood. So, they will do their duties spontaneously. Actually, these issues are not spontaneous. It depends on how we teach them moral values from their childhoods. Training is a very important part for developing children’s personalities.”
In the end, I would like to say that for the sons of the poor countries and the developing countries it is tough to support their parents and sometimes including brothers and sisters. But even then we cannot ignore our duties towards our parents. Let us sacrifice some of our comforts and luxaries for our parents.

শনিবার, ১৩ ফেব্রুয়ারী, ২০১৬

The third gender (Hijras)

The third gender (Hijras)
For writing this article I have collected information from Wikipedia and Aljazeera news.
People of the third gender are neither males nor females. They may have both male and female sexual organs or characteristics. In general, Hijras are born with typically male physiologies. Some Hijras undergo an initiation rite into the Hijra community called “Nirwaan”, which refers to removal of the penis, scrotum and testicles.
Scientists suggest that several prenatal, chromosomal, hormonal, biological and genetic factors might be responsible for birth of the population of third gender.
They are normally and naturally born of their parents, just the same way we were born. Yes, it is the same biological process of giving births to babies. In India, Bangladesh and Pakistan they cannot stay with their parents or the parents do not want to keep them because of social rejection or unacceptability.
I do not understand that why they can’t stay with their families. They have families. They have parents, brothers, sisters, uncles and aunties. We sometimes have dumb children, retarded children and children with other disabilities. We are keeping them with us. There is no harm if children of the third gender live with their families.
Besides sexual identity, Hijras are like other normal human beings. They can talk, hear, speak, work and are capable of doing other physical and mental activities. If they are given education, they can become engineers, doctors or professors. There are many Hijras all over the world. There are 700 thousand (0.2 to 0.3% of the total population) transgender people in the U.S.A ( Ref: livescience.com/50635-bruce-jenner-transgender-prevalence.html).
We must agree that they are realities of human existence. We cannot deny the fact that they are humans like us. When we degrade them, we actually degrade humanity.
In South Asia Hijras are separated from the main society. Many of them live in well defined and organized all-Hijra communities, led by a guru. These communities have sustained themselves over generations. They earn livelihoods by performing, dancing and singing in family functions, e.g. birthdays, marriages and childbirths. It is obligatory for hosts to pay them in money, grain or other things.
I have observed a common belief among household owners that if the Hijras are dissatisfied, they will curse them that would become effective. I have experienced that if I don’t pay them money they curse me very badly.
These days they are creating much problems to the shopkeepers, vendors and household owners of Dhaka city.The Hijras demand high amounts of money. If they don’t want to give as much as they want, the Hijras snatch away the products they were selling and curse and abuse the household owners using ugly language.
In Bangladesh, there are ten thousand Hijras. Yes, people complain that their behaviours are rough but they have something to say too. They say that they are deprived of all human rights. They are without jobs, income, education, health care facilities etc. Wherever they go they experience discriminations. They cannot be admitted to the public hospitals. They cannot earn their livelihoods. How can they survive without money? When they were born, their parents rejected them. Is it not shocking that parents rejected their own babies who were of their own flesh and blood? They have no burial rights. After deaths they do not get graves. They are refused and rejected even after death!
There are some positive aspects of the problem that we can discuss now. India, Nepal, Pakistan and Bangladesh have legally recognized existence of the third gender in relevant official documents including the passports. In Bangladesh, Hijras are eligible for priority in education and they have voting rights too. Bangladesh Government had a plan of recruiting the Hijras as traffic police. Once I read it in the newspapers. I am not aware of any implementation of this idea. In June, 2009, the Supreme court of Pakistan ordered a census of Hijra population which revealed that at that time the number of Hijra population was 300,000.
The Hijras of India are the most well known and populous third sex type in the modern world. Mumbai based community health organization “The Humsafar Trust” estimates that there are between 5 and 6 million Hijras in India. They can cast their votes and they have voter identity cards. They are entitled to reservation in education and jobs. As per verdict of Indian Supreme court dated 15 April, 2014, “Recognition of transgender as a third gender is not a social or medical issue but a human rights issue.” The verdict made India one of the few countries to give this landmark judgement.
I am in New Zealand now. Here birth certificates are available at birth showing “Indeterminate” sex if it is not possible to assign a sex. The New Zealand Department of Internal Affairs states, “ A person’s sex can be recorded as Indeterminate at the time of birth if it cannot be ascertained that the person is either male or female and there are a number of people so recorded.” Passports are available from December, 2012 with an “X” sex description where “X” means “Indeterminate/Unspecified”.
I think Hijras are not normal and natural phenomena. They do not look like normal. They don’t have normal reproductive systems. They cannot produce children. Human babies are born with other kinds of abnormalities too. Hijras are like them. They are born because of chromosomal, genetic and hormonal defects. They should be treated the way we treat our other physical defects. Surgical operations may help them. They should be transformed to either males or females with the respective reproductive systems so that they may produce children. The medical scientists will be able to describe this paragraph better. Research should be continued for giving the Hijras their sexual identities as either males or females. At the moment, if we cannot do this, we should recognize their human rights and treat them accordingly. If we achieve something in theory, we should practice it too.
We can give them work. They will be able to work in the factories even if they are not educated. They can be involved in construction work. They can work as cleaners. They can have proper education facilities. Our development partners may come forward for their rehabilitation.
I firmly believe that proper education, health facilities, rehabilitation, protection, security, love, affection and social acceptance can completely change their status. Social rejection and parental rejection will equally negatively affect all of us. In the end, we must remember that they are humans like us and definitely they are our sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunties, nephews and nieces. We must recognize our own flesh and blood.

বুধবার, ১০ ফেব্রুয়ারী, ২০১৬

Choosing the bride

Choosing the bride
Two types of marriages are conducted in Bangladesh. One is marriage for love and the other one is marriage of convenience. I understand that in Bangladesh most of the marriages are of convenience. These marriages are generally arranged by parents.
In case of love marriages, boys and girls love one another and then they get married. Still the Bangladeshi society is conservative. Usually the guardians do not approve of love among boys and girls without their consents. So, the lovers struggle a lot to get married.
In case of arranged marriages, it is only the girls who struggle hard to be chosen by the bridegroom’s parents and relatives. The men are in advantageous positions. Their demands are much higher than that of the girls. The girls from class five to the level of Master’s degree become candidates of one educated man. But a girl of any education level cannot be handed over to a man who studied up to class five only. Actually this is the story of the middle class people.
Men want everything. They want a rich and well reputed father-in-law, a beautiful and well educated bride and a dowry of high value. The story does not end here. They see and examine to their heart's content hundreds of girls for choosing only one bride.
I have seen that they take it as fun which causes a tremendous mental and financial pressure on the parents of the girls and on the girls themselves. The girls’ parents arrange tasty and costly food items to entertain them and take other necessary preparations to satisfy the bridegroom’s family. To face this ordeal many times, parents of the bride spend lots of money because each time the bridegroom’s family rejects the girl.
I have noticed that they don’t take it seriously. They do not think about the sorrows and frustrations of the bride and her parents. I have seen that the girls become devastated being rejected so many times without any valid reason.
I understand that they may not choose or like a girl but they can be respectful to them and their parents. They can see the photos of the brides, they can have ideas about the complexions of the brides, they can collect other information about their families before seeing the girl. I mean they can reduce the chances of rejection if they consider the matter seriously.

I understand that there are matchmaking organizations of Bangladesh. They should take care of this phenomenon so that before going to the homes of brides, they consider the issues of human respect and their sufferings along with financial costs.
Choosing a girl for marriage is not a fun. Men and women are choosing their life partners. It is not a commodity market. This is about human relations. So, from the very beginning mutual respects should be ensured.
I felt very sad when I found highly educated men, choosing brides by creating sufferings to hundreds of parents and girls. In this regard they can educate their families. They can educate the society.
In the end, I would urge the men and their families to pay due respect to the girls and their parents when they choose their brides.

রবিবার, ৭ ফেব্রুয়ারী, ২০১৬

Love

Love
This is my personal experience. Fulbanu was around 35 years old when she worked in my mother’s household. Her daughter Maya might be 12 years old. They were Six brothers and sisters. They used to live in a slum area, not very far from our home. Maya sometimes came to help her mother.
All maidservants of Bangladesh are ill paid. The society is based on exploitation like any other developing country. Social justice is least ensured.
There were other maids in our home. In the evening other maids from the neighborhood used to come to our home to join their friends. My mother was kind enough to allow this. I observed them talking, laughing and enjoying a lot among themselves. There was no lack of pleasure. Pleasures do not need education, status, position, income etc. It requires human feelings and human hearts. These are free gifts of nature.
We called our maids as “Bua”. At night they slept on mats. Smooth and deep sleep was their blessings. Within minutes they were in deep sleep. They needed no sleeping tablets and no medicine for diabetes and blood pressure. I felt that they were happier than us.
Once I called Maya to do some household work. In the end I gave her some money and a left over olive. I said, “Eat the olive here with some salt”. She said, “ No, I will take it home and eat it together with my parents, brothers and sisters.” I said, “ How is that possible? You have only one olive and including you there are eight family members.” She said, “ I will make “Bhorta” with it. First I shall boil it and then put salt, molasses, chili, coriander leaves and some mustard oil. I will then make smashed olive and share it with all family members during dinner.”
I was astonished hearing this. She taught me many things that I could not learn by reading many books. I felt that poverty created love, affection and human bond. Sharing is the first condition of love. Maya learnt it better than me. They did not have enough to have the whole of anything. They got parts and pieces. I felt love consisted of parts and pieces that needed to be shared.

শুক্রবার, ৯ অক্টোবর, ২০১৫

Diabetes

Diabetes
Before starting my article I want to clarify certain points. I am not a doctor. I am writing my personal experience as a diabetic patient. I will just express my feelings and experiences. There may be conceptual mistakes or other kinds of errors.
I got diabetes during my fifties. At that time I had been working in the Ministry of Agriculture as Deputy Chief. I was very much shocked when it was first revealed that I got diabetes. It was more a psychological problem rather than physical sickness. I was always depressed and suffered from inferiority complex. Every day I wept much and thought about my sins for which God was so angry with me. I was suspicious about all food. I thought each food contained sugar.
I am very fond of sweets. When I understood that I was not allowed to eat sweets, my craving for sweets increased manyfold. It was a great mental shock that my freedom of food intake became drastically limited. Food is a very important part of human existence. It was painful to keep myself away from food that was very favorite to me.
                   In my office I kept my diabetes hidden from everybody because my colleagues might feel that I was inferior to them. I would lack energy and vigor for all purposes. I might not get a good posting because of my illness. I might not be included in Government delegation to represent the country abroad. The authorities might think that my performance would be limited compared to other non-diabetic officers.
I do not know why and how I got diabetes. My father had diabetes and I am the eldest of all my siblings. I have two brothers and three sisters. My father was a lawyer. It may be so that he had less physical exercise. My job was like that too. I had desk work. Most of the time I remained seated on the chair. Physical movement was very little. In fact I do not yet know what causes diabetes.
It seems to me that in each office there should be breaks for ten minutes to have light physical exercise and this period may be made interesting through music or other games that would make exercise interesting even to the aged people.
Our food habits are important for maintaining good health. Our food items should mainly be vegetables, pulses, beans, fruits and milk that are easily digested. I understand that digestion is a crucial factor in managing diabetes. I feel that we can have protein twice a week. We should drink plenty of water everyday that we often forget. We find that we have no time to drink water again and again. Life has become complex and competitive. We can keep a water bottle on our working table so that we do not forget to drink water.
We can include lemon, fruits and salad with each meal.  We should never forget the benefits of citrus fruits that are available in plenty in the tropical countries. In modern days everyone can get citrus fruits  anywhere in the world. The non-tropical countries import citrus fruits.
In June/July 2015, doctors felt that cataract in my left eye needed to be treated by phaco surgery. I got my ideas of Phaco Surgery from the web page- en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/cataract_surgery which says that cataract surgery is removal of the natural lens of the eye (also called “Chrystalline lens”) that has developed an opacification which is referred to as a cataract. Metabolic changes of the crystalline lens fibres over time lead to development of cataract and loss of transparency causing impairment or loss of vision. During cataract surgery, a patient’s cloudy natural cataract lens is removed and replaced with a synthetic lens to restore the lens’s transparency.
My surgery was kept pending for high blood sugar level. Before operation diabetes should be controlled. I found it very difficult to bring down my sugar level as it was necessary for operation. I had to struggle a lot. I was referred to a doctor who instructed me to measure blood sugar level by myself seven times a day. He gave me a blank chart/table to fill out with required information. I had to measure my blood sugar level before breakfast, after breakfast, before lunch, after lunch, before dinner, after dinner and before sleeping. While filling out the chart/table I developed an insight into the matter. I started doing my own research. I found that particular food items increased my sugar level. Earlier doctors advised us to eat wheat bread (Ata Roti) at night but I found that wheat bread increased my sugar level to a considerable extent.
We understand that egg, fish and meat do not contain glucose but my sugar level increased if I ate meat. The reason might be that protein could not be digested quickly.
                          I felt that I needed knowledge of glucose in different food items. I felt that diabetic education should be the most important part of treatment of diabetes.
                                Diabetes Mellitus (DM) is a group of metabolic diseases in which there are high blood sugar levels over a prolonged period. Diabetes is due to either the pancreas is not producing enough insulin or the cells of the bodies not responding properly to the insulin produced. (Reference: en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diabetes_mellitus).
I feel that food plays the main role in controlling diabetes. In addition to this we should exercise on regular basis. When we are aged, walking seems to be the best exercise for us. Regular walking helps me to control my high blood pressure as well. I loose weight when I can walk every day regularly.
As a diabetic patient I need to know the glucose contents of food items. It would be better if I could have an instrument that would tell me the amount of glucose in each food item separately. For instance, I will touch the instrument to a banana and my device will show the content of glucose on the monitor, just the same way we read our sugar level on the monitor of a device designed to measure our blood sugar level. This may not be possible but we can learn about the amount of glucose contained in food items from internet, books or other reading materials.
Knowledge of glucose in food items is important even when I eat food that contains much glucose. Sometimes we cannot resist ourselves to keep away from tasty food but if I have knowledge about it this will be my informed choice. I may eat one piece of sweet but when I will go for the second one my glycemic knowledge of food will discourage me to take more.
Some food contains more glucose than others. We can choose the food items that contain less glucose. The scientists have given us Glycemic Index Value of food items. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/glycemic_index says that the Glycemic Index (GI) is a number associated with a particular type of food that indicates the food’s effect on a person’s blood glucose level. A value of 100 represents the standard, an equivalent amount of pure glucose. The GI represents the total rise in a person’s blood sugar level following consumption of the food; it may or may not represent the rapidity of rise in blood sugar. The steepness of rise can be influenced by a number of other factors, such as the quantity of fat eaten with the food.
                      I learnt that egg, fish and meat contain no glucose but when my meal included meat my blood sugar level increased. I found no impact of one boiled egg in the meal but when the egg was fried with onions and oil, it influenced blood sugar level. I thought that meat was digested later than vegetables. That might hamper digestion or absorption of glucose too. Actually I do not know it exactly. A doctor may explain in an appropriate manner.
American Diabetic Association has classified Glycemic Index as low GI food (55 or less), medium GI food (56 to 69 and high GI food (70 or above).
Let us look at GI values of some food items that are regarded as low GI food: -
Apple-36, banana-51, Cherries-36, grapefruit-25, grapes-46, orange-43, pear-38, strawberries-36, peanuts-7, bean sprouts one cup-25, raw carrots-35, cooked carrots-85, brown rice one cup-55, red rice one cup-55, honey one tablespoonful- 55, chickpeas-10, kidney beans-29, lentils-29, soybeans-15, cashew nuts-27, beans black eyed-41, wholegrain oats-40, black beans-35, green peas-35, orange-35, peaches-35, plums/prunes-35, tomatoes-30, French beans-30, red kidney beans-30, barely  blanched-25, black berry-25, eggplant-20, lemon-20, broccoli-15, cabbage-15, cucumber-15, radish-15, avocado-10, spinach-15.
                From the above information I noticed that raw food and cooked food have different GI values. For instance, when carrot is not cooked, its GI value is 35 only but when it is cooked, GI value increases to a great extent.
                            Let us look at some high GI value food items: -
Wheat bread-70, white bread-70, potato-104, parsnip-97, popcorn-72, watermelon-76, Celery/turnip-85, corn starch- 85, pumpkin gourd-75, broad bean-65, beet/beetroot-65, sweet corn-65.
It seems that the diabetic centres or institutions can arrange training programmes for the patients. For this disease, patient’s knowledge is vital. They will be able to manage their diabetes with their knowledge. Understanding the disease provides insight and confidence to the patients. the diabetic centres can distribute a booklet to the patients that will provide information about food of high, medium and low GI value.
liverstrong.com/article/360955-basmoti-rice-as-a-diabetic-food/#page=1 says that carbohydrate is the key nutrient to control diabetes as it is the one that influences blood sugar level the most. After the digestion process, carbohydrates are converted into glucose or sugar, molecules, which then make their way into the bloodstream elevating blood sugar level at the same time. An excessive carbohydrate intake lead to blood glucose levels above target because insulin is either present in insufficient quantities or is simply ineffective with diabetes. For this reason American Diabetic Association recommends aiming for a carbohydrate intake ranging between 45 and 60 glycemic value at each meal.
tilda.com/news/basmati-rice-diabetes informs us that wholegrain Basmati rice has the lowest GI of all rice types, which means once digested it releases its energy slowly keeping blood sugar levels more stable, which is a crucial part of diabetes management. The higher magnesium content found in Basmati can help with blood sugar control.
Wholegrain Basmati rice is also a good source of fibre which is important for gut health and improves bowel function. High fibre intake have also been associated with a lower risk of bowel cancer, reduced risks of type two diabetes complications, increased satiety and weight management. A high intake of wholegrain food has been associated with lower risk of heart disease and stroke. Both wholegrain and white Basmati rice contains a type of fibre known as resistant starch. This has a prebiotic effect in the bowel, which means it can help to increase the number of friendly bacteria. This in turn, protects the bowel and keeps it healthy and boosts the body’s immunity.
        Basmati rice has a superior nutrient content compared with other rice types. They contain higher amounts of B vitamins and minerals such as copper and magnesium. I read this web page and started eating Basmati rice for each meal. It was of immense benefits to me. My sugar level came down without much effort. I felt light and healthy with Basmati rice.
First of all I prepared my plate for one meal. I did not add any food for the second time. I took one cup of Basmati rice and included other low GI value food on my plate. For instance, I added vegetables, cashew nuts, cucumber and lentil of one cup with Basmati rice. I understand that I got the main energy from rice. The other time I added vegetables, tomatoes and one cup of milk with basmati rice. Sometimes I ate one boiled egg instead of milk.  If I felt hungry during the interim periods of meals, I ate low GI value fruits, such as, half of an apple or half of an orange.
                       I noticed that quantity of food had effects on blood sugar levels. For instance, I had low GI value food but if the quantity was large, it had negative impact on my blood sugar levels.
I abandoned the habit of having food frequently besides meals. In our culture we eat fried food often, such as Samusha, Singara, Dal Puri etc. I found that fried food increased my blood sugar level.
Once I read a Reader’s Digest, wherein it was written that watery food and boiled food is the best for us. We should cook soup like food. Fried food and baked food is not healthy. When we cook food, some water should be there for maintaining good health.
Rice is the staple food in Bengal and some parts of Asia, specially in southern part of Asia. The agricultural scientists can innovate diabetes friendly rice. They have given us golden rice that contain vitamins and minerals. So, it is possible to have diabetic friendly rice. Collaborations among the diabetic institutions and the agricultural research centres are necessary for this.
                     In the end, I controlled my diabetes and had cataract operation on 18 August, 2015. Diabetes Should remain under control for the purpose of healing as well. I got very sincere cooperation and excellent care of my husband, Engr. K. M. Johur Ali. I am profoundly grateful to him. I am doing fine now.